The Non-Negotiables!

  • non-smoker
  • working. Has worked. Will work. Work ethic.
    • Ideal – love his work, but recognizes need to contribute financially to the family
  • parenting possibilities
    • will/can provide sib for The Mook – bio or step or adopted
    • recognizes that he is not the primary father
  • healthy relationship with his mother and other family
  • sex!
    • healthy sex drive
    • adventurous and open and all that good stuff
  • healthy and self-aware: mentally, emotionally, physically
  • appreciates the art of communication and the enjoyment of silence
  • self-assured and confident
  • has a creative outlet
  • self-sufficient/independent
  • liberal/left-leaning
  • adventurous
  • gives and receives physical touch openly
  • an EQUAL partner in all aspects of our lives